Your boyfriend might be the most handsome and charming guy you’ve ever met, but all these things are nothing if he can’t even commit to you. But have you tried looking into those eyes and understanding why he still can’t propose to you?
This guy would give his life for you.
Okay, that may be going too far, but this guy protects you because he not only cares, he now sees you as his future mate for life. Unless you let him see that you care about him too, this guy could be years away from proposing.
He is sure of your feelings for him.
This guy might be nervous because he’s not sure how to present the idea to you. He might be dying to get engaged, but there’s no telling how you’d react. And it would really break his heart if he found out that you don’t care much for him.
He happily talks about marriage.
This man welcomes the subject of marriage. In fact, he might even start conversations that center around the M-word. This guy is shutting up when it comes to a proposal because, well, this might be his first for starters, so just ignore him. Also, that’s a big responsibility for any guy, so give him time to get everything ready.
His loyalty is second to none.
You have not seen him flirt with other women and you would never see him either because he is very loyal to you. He is also happy to spend his moments with you more than anyone. This guy would love to propose to her, if he had the chance, but right now, he’s just savoring the moment because everything is perfectly fine between the two of you.
He doesn’t know what the future holds for both of them.
This man can love you with all his soul, but he still does not offer you marriage for the sole reason that he does not know what will happen next. This guy may start to ask you about your desires and expectations in the marriage. Give him your honest answer so he knows what to do next.
You are still summarizing the responsibilities related to marriage.
Because he’s a man, much more is expected of him once he’s married. He’s going to be the main breadwinner for the family to begin with. He is also expected to keep his family together through the years. That’s his future at stake, so understand if he’s being a little cautious.
Little by little it is accumulating in finances.
You may hear from him that he is already starting to save for his future. But his savings may not be enough yet, which is why he still can’t ask the question. If he’s not ready, it’s because he’s not ready, so never force him to ask for your hand in marriage when he still feels he’s still financially unstable.