When someone feels jealous, subconsciously their gestures and body language can betray them through what we call signs of jealousy. These signs, if we know how to discern them, can help us a lot in our efforts to have a meaningful and fulfilling relationship with the person we dream of.
Showing love or affection, especially to those who are very attracted to us, is not something that is easy for everyone.
Some people may have feelings for a certain person and dream about them almost every night. They know that they should let that particular one know about their deep feelings so that they can know if their feelings are reciprocated or not.
But they just don’t know how to start. It makes them suffer. In fact, being in love without knowing if our love interest shares the same feeling is very tormenting.
Especially for shy guys and girls, saying that is often too hard to do. That fear of rejection always gets in the way of shy people. And getting over it is easier said than done.
But yet, we cannot afford to continue living in such agony just because of that fear. We should, sooner or later, talk about it or else it could be the biggest regret of our lives.
On the other hand, showing or saying it without having any idea whether he/she feels the same way about us or not is often too scary! Is there a way to know if a love interest shares the same sentiment with us? Thank God there is. How? Through the signs of jealousy that they unconsciously show if they are also in love with us.
So what signs of jealousy can we use for that? Let’s see some of them now.
1. Looking at you or staring at you when we talk to the opposite sex. Sometimes a jealous person may also act like he doesn’t mind seeing you talking to friends of the opposite sex, but your gut tells you he’s just pretending to act that way.
2. You find yourself “bumping into” him/her in all the places you usually go, and he/she seems to be too curious about your activities and your friends.
3. You find that he/she tends to say unpleasant things about your (close) friends, especially those of the opposite sex.
4. He is upset or “scared” if, when you talk to him, you tell him that another friend of yours is attractive.
5. He seems to be very uncomfortable if he finds out that someone else finds you attractive and/or tries to flirt with you.
Those are just some of the signs of jealousy that you can use to guess if your love interest has the same interest in you or not. You can of course use this knowledge for many other purposes as you need. To know more about the signs, you can read the article mentioned in the resource box below.