How to get it back? Turning your break up

When a girlfriend leaves you for the first time, many factors decide whether or not she accepts you. The most important? How do you handle the breakup. You need to realize how your actions immediately after the end of your relationship can drive your ex away forever or make him want you in his life again. There are behaviors you are looking forward to seeing and behaviors that will make you wonder if breaking up with you was really the right move to start with. The following are some good examples:

Acting hurt or upset – This is what your girlfriend expects you to do when she’s done with you. Why? Because she wants to think that you’re still in love with her. She wants to know that she was needed and that her relationship with you during all these last months or years was not in vain. Seeing him upset validates these things for her and lets her know that it’s okay to move on.

How to turn it around: What’s the best thing you can do when your ex breaks up with you? Nod your head and agree with her. Let him know that you think it’s probably a good idea for the two of you to go your separate ways and wish him luck. Then turn around and walk away. It sounds simple, but it can be extremely difficult, especially since you still love this girl. However, you must think long term. You must focus on the goal of getting your girlfriend back and dating her again. When you look at things from this perspective, walking away is really the only option. He takes her out of the comfortable position of being in charge of the breakup, and makes her review the whole situation from very new angles. Get it right and your ex will really question the breakup.

Contacting your ex after the breakup – Your ex no longer wants to be with you and will want you to accept it. Still, it will hope that it will take a while for you to finally leave. He wants to see you out there so he can control you, know how you feel, see what you are doing and find out how you are handling things. This is all part of making her feel comfortable being in charge, as mentioned above.

How to turn it aroundRather than “being around” her after she dumps you, the best thing you can do to improve your chances of getting your ex back is to disappear completely. When your ex turns around and you are gone, they will start asking for you. It will start with her friends, then move on until she seeks information from her own friends. Make sure they don’t give him any.

How to get it back? Not seeing or hearing from you is one of the best remedies for a breakup. When your ex makes up an excuse to email you or leave you a message, ignore these things and let them wonder. After a while, her curiosity will get the best of her. You’ll get trapped in her skull and she won’t be able to think about much more than where the hell you are. She’ll even worry that maybe you’ve found someone else, which will make you wonder if it wasn’t for a while.

These are all good things. Your ex no longer has the right to investigate your personal life and she knows it. He can’t keep snooping, but he won’t be able to stop thinking about you until he finds out what’s going on. Avoid her for as long as possible, but if you must have contact (that is, if you work or go to school with her) say a nice hello, nod your head, and keep moving. Your lack of reaction to the breakup will drive your ex totally crazy.

Stay home and be retired – Especially if the relationship ended when she knows you still love her, your ex will expect you to become lonely and withdrawn for the next few weeks. Again, you would like to think that the breakup bothers you on many levels. She wants to be the one who left and now she can move on to find the person she thinks she wants. At the same time, she doesn’t want you to continue … at least not until she’s settled into a completely new and exciting situation.

How to turn it around: Get out! Do stuff! Look up your friends, your family, and all the hobbies that you may have neglected while you were heavily involved in dating your ex. Now is the time to jump into the spotlight and have some fun. What if there is any chance that your behavior could affect your ex? WELL. The more news the better. You want to give the impression that you are not bothered in the least by the fact that your ex broke up with you. By always smiling, laughing, and having a good time, you’re showing your ex that she wasn’t the only one responsible for your happiness. In fact, you’re having some of the best times without her. This will make your ex jealous, no matter how he tries to rationalize things. It will also make you appear more attractive, because suddenly you are showing confidence and happiness – traits that most girls are attracted to. Keep it up and in no time you’ll wonder why he let you go in the first place.

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